Telling people you don’t drink can all too often be met by a blank stare and a band of people asking “why not?!” It’s true that many social interactions at university involve alcohol. Yes, meeting at the bar is a regular occurrence for most students and yes, almost all university society socials involve some form of drinking. At university, especially during freshers’ week, it may even seem like you’re almost expected to drink – but despite all this, is it still possible to enjoy university if you don’t drink alcohol?
I personally did drink at alcohol at university and in my university the majority of people I knew also drank alcohol. This was by no means everybody, however – there were also many people who didn’t drink. In fact, an article from the NHS at the end of last year claims that the amount young people are drinking is declining over time.
Will not drinking impact your social life?
Not drinking alcohol at university can sometimes feel very awkward. With so many social events based around excessive drinking, it can be hard not to feel left out if you don’t drink.
But will not drinking have an impact on your social life? The answer to this is yes and no. It really depends on whether or not you feel comfortable being around people who are drinking when you aren’t. If you feel comfortable going to clubs and bars sober when people are drinking then, of course, this is an option, but if that makes you feel uncomfortable then you may also want to make friends with people who also don’t drink.
I asked my friend, Aima, who doesn’t drink due to her religion, if she ever felt like not drinking restricted her social life at university at all. She said: “I think most of the people I was socializing with during evenings were people who don’t drink or people who knew I wouldn't be comfortable with drinks around me, so it wasn’t much of a thing for me.”
As I spoke to Aima about this, I realized that not once in our friendship of four years have we ever discussed the fact that she didn’t drink alcohol. When we hung out together, it was just taken as a given that we would just do an activity that wasn’t reliant on drinking alcohol, like going out for dinner, having coffee or watching a film. The fact that one of us drank alcohol and the other didn’t was never really a factor in our friendship.
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